September 18, 2020

When a Man Loves a Woman – They Say its Wonderful

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August 11th, 2011 was the day Ari Gronich proposed to me at his parents home in Sacramento, California.  It was one of the most romantic moments I have ever experienced. His family, opened their hearts and homes instantly. We went to a musical “Annie Get Your Gun” the evening before. I sat in the middle watching and listening to Ari, his mother and father sing every song. A night I will always remember and here is one of the songs  – “They Say It’s Wonderful”

 

 

This past August 11th I forgot this special day but had a huge smile on my face as soon as Ari reminded me!!! Everyday I am reminded what it is like to be really loved and adored. I am feeling very grateful to have this experience and want to share some of the gifts I am experiencing around love and relationships.

 

I used to think it’s not possible or stay away from long distance relationship, but have found if two people really are meant to be together, they will find a way. When Ari decided he wanted to be with me and my family, he packed up his entire home of 5 years in Los Angeles and moved across the country.  He lived in California most of his life. What a risk and willingness to let go and be open to a possibility. I know there are days it’s challenging for him, as he misses his community, friends and family in California. Most of his relationships are over 10 years in memories. So often when I feel stuck in my ways of thinking or doing things….I ask “What am I willing to give up to have more love and joy?” Is it a story or belief? And when I love to this place of appreciation….I become open to letting go! Dare to LOVE 🙂

 

I wake up in the morning greeted with a huge smile, “good morning and I love you!!” A true partner that wants to bring more joy and love to not only our family but everyone we come into contact with.  Very selfless…sometime I bug him to be more selfish and put himself first!  

 

Today I get this song “When a Man Loves a Woman” in my head when I think of my relationship with Ari and his deep love.  It also reminds me and hopefully others what is possible with love!!

 

Speaking of Love!!! Master Love Coach Scott  is coming to Brevard March 16th at Aquarian Dreams and March 17th at the POD!!

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Creating Your Intentional Year 2013!!

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I wanted to share with you one of the tools that I use at the end of each year (or could even be done monthly) to celebrate the year prior and create an even better new year. Here are 6 keys areas to look at when striving for more balance in your world. Please take time to acknowledge and celebrate 2012 by filling out at least 5 successes in each category. Then as you start creating your list for 2013 see if there are areas you would like to improve or give more attention to for the new year! Magical things can happen when you do this process!!

1. Fitness & Health – Physical activities, eating habits, weight, clothing size, energy level etc.

2. Career or Business – Type of business or work desired, niche, hours worked, revenue, profits, services or products you provide, number of clients etc.

3. Money & Finance – Savings, working income, passive business income, investments, money management etc.

4. Personal Relationships – Primary relationship, family, social & friendships, etc.

5. Personal & Professional Mastery – Spiritual exploration, supportive habits, emotional healing, professional skills and certifications, etc.

6. Big Dreams or Bucklist – What are your big dreams or bucklist? What dreams have you accomplished or what intermediate steps can to take towards reaching your big dream? etc.

Complimentary 30-min coaching session for the first 20 who book before Jan 15th. Happy New Year Gift from me!!!
Partners in Health and Success,
Shannon Burnett-Gronich
Event Production Goddess,
Marketing Expert, and 
Best Selling Author
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Creating an “Ideal Partner List”

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I broke up from an amazing relationship last July. In this relationship, I got to experience a partnership of deep admiration and support. He helped me see beauty inside of myself that I didn’t always see or acknowledge as gifts! He loved my children as if they were his own and I could go on and on with all the amazing gifts that came from our time together.

So why did you break- up then? Well there is a time and a season for everything and I was certain that time had come.

After this break-up I looked at what the amazing gifts I recieved from this experience and what would I like to create more of or differently next time! This time, with the inspiration of https://www.KandeeG.com and her love story she shared, it motived me to create an “Ideal Partner List”!

Have you ever created an ideal partner list? The first time I did this process was about 9 years ago and I said I would NEVER do that again because I got everything I asked for, but forgot to look at a few key areas. LOL However….now I know that to create what I want, I want to have clarity! Clarity leads to power.

Then ask for THIS OR SOMETHING BETTER!

When I first started this process I was careful to put the language in the form of what I want to create, instead of what I don’t want. Sometime I had to start with what I didn’t want to turn it around to what I did want.

Then when I looked at the list, I started to feel very depressed and lonely. Thinking how can I attract this amazing person into my life? Am I being shallow? Is it truely possible to have everything I want in a partner?

After a short time I started dating and adding more items to my list. It was getting longer and longer and longer (still is today)! Wow!!! Wondering is this partner really possible…and yet I have faith they are. I am still holding the vision…..and certain this process is bringing him to me now.

I will share a portion of my list below….Would love to hear if you think, share insights and comments

My PR advisor is saying I am NUTS for posting this….it will push buttons and not a good idea! What do you think?

My ideal partner is coming to me NOW!! or when I am ready! LOL

I am to be the person I would love to love
As we grow together, sees us as a team
Honest
Comfortable and willing to wear a business suit
Fun
Affectionate
Great mindset
Enjoys Learning
Enlightened Warrior
Living Consciously
Loves holding me
Love my children
Loves kissing me
Loves what I share
Great listener
Forgiving
Flexible
Wants to be involved and hear about my day and life
Willing to feel and express all feelings
Romantic
Confident
Comfortable
natural health advocate
Drugless
Loving
Loves kids
Loves animals
Willing to be intimate
Supportive
Grateful
Understand and utilize their power in visioning
Open minded
Meditates
physically fit
playful
funny
GREAT looking
spiritual and open to other beliefs
great driver (I have been in a few accidents)
adventurous
Enjoys taking my phone calls and/or connections – even if just a quick “hi, I am busy”
Ok with me being on the phone for work (many hours)
Love community and comfortable being with others.
Strong enough to be gentle
Tells me I am beautiful
Tells me I am special
Tell me he loves me!!!
Shares challenges openly
Focuses on the good in me and helps me see it, when I don’t
Full of surprises
Great sense of humor
Supports my choice of priorities even if he disagrees
Lovingly agrees to disagree when needed
Willing to take risks
Will act in spite of fear or unknown
Protective
Hold me in the light
Pray with me and family
Will say “sorry” if needed
Hold me when I am crying, even if it is uncomfortable
Willing to stay in our relationship, even through the most challenging times
Beautiful eyes!
Passionate
Successful
Great zest for life
Motivated
Money is not an issue, plenty of it!
Loves music
Loves dancing
Has a passport
Plays well with others
Enjoys shopping with me
Straight male
Street smart
Entrepreneur mindset
Living in the NOW
Present
Loves rubbing my feet and body
Love to be of service for others
Will love and adore me when I am old
Wants to grow old but not look old, with me
Balance in all areas of his life!
Considerate of others
Great Father
Great cook
Wants to show up and support events
Available emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually
See us (everyone) as ONE
similar political views – not allowing politics to create separation
Respects the body as a temple and sex as a sacred act of Godliness
Social Drinking or not a drinker at all
Risk taker!
Will continue to be commited to play together, even when they want to quit
Will avoid excuses
Shows up for himself
Reaction…can move through it quickly without much damage.
Will “get over it”…and tell me to “get over it”, when I need it
Understand that pain is okay, just love and allow during that process
Work through resistance, do what is uncomfortable
Wants homes in other areas/countries
Pushes me with love to grow into the spiritual and business leader I am!
Values the support I bring to their life and I do the same for them. Honor each others gifts
Will challenge my belief’s and their own
Cool with Jari being an active father and friend.
Wants to be married…if not have a sacred ceremony like marriage
We experience giving and recieving love unconditionally
Allows me to show up and serve, without fears or judgements. Just let’s me give!
Enjoys hiking, camping and the outdoors
When I see him, I want to kiss and hug…my hearts beats fast even after many years!

PS>>>>THIS IS NOT THE ENTIRE LIST. SOMETHINGS STAY PRIVATE (-:

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